My Tween, Puberteit en Seksvoorligting

My Tween, Puberteit en Seksvoorligting
Ongelukkig lewe ons in ‘n wereld waar ons en ons kinders op ‘n daaglikes basis gebombardeer word met dinge van ‘n seksuele aard. Dit word as’t ware op ‘n silwer skinkbord agter ons aangedra en na ons toe uitgehou; om elke hoek en draai. Ons word stelselmatig so gedesensitiseer daardeur, dat ons dit self dalk nie eens meer agterkom nie. 

Vriendskappe en my huwelik - 'n artikel vir LIG tydskrif

Vriendskappe en my huwelik - 'n artikel vir LIG tydskrif

Lig het vir Anri gevra wat haar opinie rondom vriendskappe tussen getroude mense van die teenoorgestelde geslag is. Lees gerus haar volledige antwoord hieronder


The role grandparents play in a child's life

The role grandparents play in a child's life
Especially in the teen years, the last person a child might like to turn to is the parents, and here a grandparent could be a shoulder to cry on, and the comfort here for parents is that the person your child turns to is usually someone you trust with regards to morals and values. Also because grandparents tend to not be as busy and rushed as parents are now a days; it’s a great place to truly get some quality attention. In short it’s an additional safe place for your child to turn to.

Ons huwelik en die verskillende fases van die lewe

  • 14 June 2017
  • Author: Anri Account
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Ons huwelik en die verskillende fases van die lewe
Nie net dit nie, maar ons word bombardeer met Facebook-verhoudings. Foto’s van heerlike vakansies, lekker oomblikke saam, oë wat blink en brëe, gelukkige glimlagte, vul sosiale media op ‘n uurlikse basis. Hierdie bombardering skep by meeste mense ‘n totale vals persepsie van hoe huwelike werk en hoe “gelukkig” almal om hulle is. Daar is ‘n algemene tendens tussen meeste mense om hulself, hul verhoudinge en hul lewens te vergelyk met die brokkies inligiting en gedokterde foto’s op sosiale media. Die afleiding of gevolgtrekking wat dan hier gemaak word is dat daar fout is met hulle as paartjie. Die feit dat, dit ‘n split sekonde verg om ‘n foto te neem en dat meeste mense baie maklik, baie fake kan glimlag vir daardie split sekonde, word hoegenaamd nie in ag geneem nie; dis makliker om die valse prentjie wat geskep word as die waarheid te aanvaar.

Tuisbly ma of werkende ma?

Vir Huisgenoot April 2017

  • 30 April 2017
  • Author: Anri Account
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Tuisbly ma of werkende ma?
Ek dink nie daar word net op huisvroue neergesien nie. Ek dink ons beweeg in ‘n tyd, waar die teenoorgestelde ook baie waar is. Sommige huisvroue sien maar net so neer op beroepsvroue.

Dit lê werklik swaar op my hart dat ons as vroue moet saamstaan. Dat ons moet ophou om mekaar sleg te maak, te kritiseer, te skinder en neer te kyk op mekaar. Elke vrou het haar eie paadjie wat sy stap, elke vrou het haar eie battles wat sy fight.

In 'n nuwe verhouding maar ek hunker en verlang na my eks

In 'n nuwe verhouding maar ek hunker en verlang na my eks

Verhoudings is nie altyd maklik nie... en om op te breek is soms bitter swaar; veral as dit 'n langtermyn verhouding was. Al wil sommige van ons dit dalk graag ontken, is dit tog maar 'n proses om deur dinge te werk en te kan aanbeweeg. In hierdie artikel, beantwoord ek 'n paar vrae rondom verhoudinge en ekse.

Wat is liefde? Hoe om jou lewensmaat beter te verstaan

  • 28 December 2016
  • Author: Lausanne Hugo
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Wat is liefde? Hoe om jou lewensmaat beter te verstaan
Liefde is een van die sterkste emosies wat ons as mense kan ervaar. Maar wat is liefde? Daar is ‘n groot aantal boeke wat liefde definieer en vir ons voorskryf hoe dit moet werk. Die probleem is egter dat niemand anders liefde soos jy sal voel nie. 

Lies and my relationship.

  • 29 September 2016
  • Author: Anri Account
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Lies and my relationship.
Healthy relationships are ones where trust is a very definite and present component between two people. Dishonesty, for whatever reason, has the ability to shatter this trust, which could completely destroy the emotional connection and -security in a relationship. Intentions and context are relevant aspects to take into consideration, and there could be scenarios that do not warrant reactions of certain magnitudes. Once trust has been broken in a relationship though, even smaller, seemingly unimportant things, could become very definite triggers of emotional insecurity and suspicion. Although there are certain instances where lies and withholding of information are warranted to a degree…

What is the difference between secrecy and privacy?

  • 17 July 2016
  • Author: Anri Account
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What is the difference between secrecy and privacy?
“Everyone has the right to privacy” is a statement that I often hear in relationship counselling.
These types of defensive statements often arise in situations where one partner is trying to justify keeping things from another. And, of course; this statement isn’t false – every individual does have the right to privacy…but is there a difference between privacy and secrecy?

Is group therapy for me?

Is group therapy for me?
Groups are set up to address a specific problem, such as depression, panic disorders, social anxiety, substance abuse or eating disorders. Other groups focus more generally on improving social skills in order to help people who are struggling with issues such as anger, shame, loneliness and low self-esteem. Group therapy is an excellent form of therapy that focuses mainly on support and acquire new knowledge and techniques in order to positively influence the quality of your life.
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