Vita Nova Marriage Counselling

Marriage Counselling is by no means a magic wand that will make all your relationship problems disappear. 

As with any self-help book, inspirational DVD or interesting and useful advice, marriage counselling is only as effective as you choose to make it. You can have a whole collection of books in your library on how to better your understanding of one another, but if you don’t actually make the time to read the books and try to apply the knowledge actively in your life – it cannot and will not be of any use to you. 

Therefore, when you decide to come for marriage counselling, make very sure of your motives. Marriage counselling will help you understand yourself better, help you get to know your partner better. You will learn new and interesting ways in which to communicate and love each other, but if you don’t choose to apply this knowledge, you are wasting your time and money. If you however, are open minded, want to save your marriage, are willing to learn, to adapt and to change (not who you are, but how you are), marriage counselling can and will benefit you immensely!

Imago therapy is one of my preferred tools in counseling couples. 

For more information on Imago therapy, please see the Imago Page on this site.

Call today to make your appointment with a marriage counselor in Pretoria.

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ASK YOURSELF

  • Is your marriage in trouble?
  • Are you struggling to recognise the person you fell in love with in your partner?
  • Are you constantly fighting and arguing?
  • Does it feel like you have absolutely nothing in common any more?
  • Have you lost each other a long the way?
  • Is healthy and effective communication near impossible between the two of you?



INFIDELITY

Infidelity in marriage is much more common than you might think.
No matter what the reasons are/were for the infidelity, the results are always pretty similar:
 
  • loss of trust
  • lies and cover ups
  • disruption in communication
  • anxiety and stress
  • emotional break downs
Both the person who's trust was broken as well as the one who broke the trust will have some work to do if the relationship is going to work - but it is possible to trust again!

If your marriage is in trouble because of infidelity, please give me a call to book your session
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Book your session

Click here to book a session or submit a question directly via the website, alternatively email
or phone 082 541 4357

Standard Consulting Fees for 2014 are R480 per session and sessions are an hour each.

Child emotional assessment and feedback R1450; feedback session free - written report R250.
Child Counselling at R420 per session.  

The first session is used to get all the background info and to allow you enough time to decide whether you are comfortable with the counsellor.

Vita Nova Counselling offers sessions in Pretoria, Pretoria East, Elarduspark.

The practice and training venue is close to Rigel Avenue off the N1. Which makes it easily accessible from Midrand, Centurion and Pretoria North. 

Workshops for couples

5 April
Communication Workshop for Couples
(1 of 3)
 
Anri van den Berg

3 May
Communication Workshop for Couples
(2 of 3)

Anri van den Berg

10 May
Temperament workshop for couples
Lausanne Hugo

17 & 18 May
2 dag kommunikasie werkswinkel
Paul Smit

13 & 14 June
Relationship workshop
based on Imago principles

Anri van den Berg